Love & Relationships.

Love & Relationships.

Happy Thanksgiving!

I hope you guys enjoyed your holiday! This was my first Thanksgiving with a family in Second Life and it was so awesome to coordinate and have everyone sit down for dinner. I was lagging hardcore but my boyfriend snagged some really cute pics! Hope you enjoyed your Thanksgiving as well! Bring on Christmas!

Wearing:

GENUS Project – Head (Classic)
#12 L.W Zodiac Necklace – Pisces (Gold)
#EMPIRE – Calantha – Maitreya *Materials*
7;] 7V Plexi – Clear – XSMax – Left Hand
7;] Round Diamond Hoops – Gold – Left
7;] Round Diamond Hoops – Gold – Right
Astralia – Compatible nails system (Belleza Stiletto base, Lueur French Polish)
DOUX – Air Hairstyle and Juniper Extra Strands
ISON – peggy turtleneck dress -freya- (gray)
[VEX] Finesque Necklace (14Inch) 18k

Love & Relationships.

Love & Relationships.

Overdose.

Hooking Up in SL

Relationships are complicated, whether in RL or SL. In my previous Love & Relationships post I gave you some basic tips for dating in SL, but what if you’re not looking to date? What if you just want to hook up or just want a #PicBae?

There’s nothing wrong with keeping your options open. Always remember that. It’s also good to know what you’re getting into ahead of time. Not everyone on the grid is honest, but let karma take care of them and be up front about your own intentions to avoid crazy disagreements.

The main thing to think about is to keep things light and fun… after all this is a game, and hooking up can be the most fun part!

BTW… this isn’t a hook up or #PicBae, this is my actual boyfriend!
P.S. My hairbase didn’t rezz in this pic, and I was really upset! It was just too cute not to post!

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Love & Relationships.

Love & Relationships.

If you had my love…

 

HUGE J.Lo fan, and I found an outfit in the 8/25 Saturday Sale that definitely gave me “If You Had My Love” vibes! One of my favorite songs by her.

Since this came out in 1999 (oh the nostalgia…) I’m giving you…

9 TIPS FOR SECOND LIFE DATING!

#9. Don’t do it for the gram… or SLFB!

– Although it’s tempting and couples pics are so cute, you’re dealing with real people with real feelings behind the avi!

#8. Phone a Friend

– It’s good to have people around you that you can trust… a family or good friends that may be able to see the person of interest without colored glasses.

#7. Dates are still important!

– For some people, they are comfortable with just keeping to themselves and staying on their platform with their manz… but that’s not me! I want the full immersive experience and that includes grand gestures. Fly me to the restaurant in a helicopter and have it filled with roses. That’s my style.

#6. Keep an Open Mind

– Second Life is a place where we can be whoever we want to be. With that being said, there are so many different and diverse avatars out there, but they are still people BTA (behind the avatar). Just because they don’t look like you, doesn’t mean they aren’t still great people.

#5. … But ALWAYS Verify!

– Keeping an open mind is great if that’s what you’re looking for… However not everyone on SL has the best inentions. Hurt people hurt people, and sometimes that’s all that people are out to do. If someone tells you something and it sounds believable, great… but if you’re ever unsure, go with your gut and verify. ESPECIALLY if there’s money or Lindens involved!

#4. Getting to Know You

– It’s also really important to take the time to really get to know someone. We’re not face to face, so we can’t pick up on little quirky things that the person of interest might do, but you can ask those kinds of questions… take the time to get to know people for who they are.

#3. Time

– Speaking of time… A full day in Second Life is 4 hours, so don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t be in love in one day… techinically in Second Life, that’s 6! Don’t let others tell you what’s wrong or right for your relationship! That’s between you and your partner, and you make your own rules!

#2.  Set Boundaries

– Be clear with what you’re looking for from the beginning. It can be an awkward conversation, but it’s important to have in the beginning so that clear expectations are set.

#1. COMMUNICATION

– Communication is probably the most important aspect of any relationship, RL or SL. Remember to keep open and honest communication at the forefront of any relationship you’re building, and you will build lasting friendships!

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Welcome to my Blog.

Basics., Glam., Love & Relationships., My Style., Shopping.

This is not my first rodeo blogging in Second Life.

 

I don’t blog for sponsors or notoriety, but to share cool things and connect with others virtually.

 

This blog is representative of my thoughts, ideas and opinions, unless collaborating.

 

Some of the images you find on my site are edited using photo editing software. Keep that in mind, especially as it relates to products purchased and don’t forget to DEMO the item yourself to see if you like it on your avatar.

 

All the items you see here have been purchased by me. I don’t do sponsored blogs or take promotional items. This is just for fun.

 

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At the bottom of each page, you can click the “+” button for all my social media links and ways to contact me. I welcome new friends and new ideas for my blog!

 

Thanks for reading!